If you are suspicious that your spouse or significant other is
having an online affair or participating in cybersex activities, then here are some red flags you should keep an eye out for:
* They spend countless hours
on the PC doing who knows what into the wee hours of the morning while you are sleeping alone in bed.
Chat
rooms and other places where people meet to participate in cybersex usually don't heat up until late at night. This is why
most people who are active in the cybersex community stay up late so that they can get in on the action when it gets hot.
* Interest in sexual activity
declines.
When a spouse shows less interest in sexual activity with their partner this usual means they have
found a new outlet for their sexual needs. In many cases these cybersex affairs lead to phone sex conversations or even a
sexual rendezvous where they meet up with their cybersex partner for actual real life sex. Most of the time, cybersex sessions
end with the participants masturbating together before they sign off.
* Whenever they go online they
want to be left alone in private without any interruptions.
It's a fact when someone is cheating, either online
and off, they often go to great lengths to hide the truth from their partner. They may move the computer from a visible area
of the house to somewhere else where they are out of site. They also begin using passwords and erasing the "History" of their
online activity. When interrupted, they frantically close the pages they have open so that you are unable to see what they
are up to.
* You notice that they are
using web-based email clients such as Hotmail, AOL, and Yahoo rather than Outlook.
Since the "cheater" doesn't
want to leave any tracks to follow they will sign up to multiple web-based email accounts that are password protected so that
their partner cannot access them.
* They spend more and more
of their free time on the computer than with you or the family.
Helping out around the house, taking the children
to a movie, or even spending quiet time with the spouse takes a back seat to their Internet time. Everything other than PC
usage becomes unimportant.
* They make strange request
for scheduling "computer time" so that you are never together when using the Internet.
Someone who is using
the computer as a tool to cheat will use the PC at the same time every evening for around the same amount of time, never less.
Why? Because the people they are meeting online will typically have the same schedule as them, it may be an hour after they
get off from work, or later in the evening after dinner.
* They become very defensive
when you ask them why they are spending so much time on the computer.
A person wrapped up in a cyber affair
never wants to be questioned about why they are always online. They will complain that you are too controlling of them and
that the PC is a way for them to relieve their stress.
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